“Don’t Threaten Your Partner With Break Up” – Actor Kenneth Okonkwo Advises Couples.
The celebrated thespian, actor Kenneth Okonkwo took to his Facebook page to advise couples against threatening themselves with divorce no matter the provocation.
The Nollywood “Living in Bondage” thespian who is one of the pioneers of the home video industry in Nigeria stated that couples having moments of disagreement in their relationship is not an abnormality, and therefore should not become grounds to threaten a partner with break up.
Another key point is for couples or intending couples to improve communications with each other to strengthen their relationships.
“No matter how upset you are, don’t threaten your partner with a break up unless you mean it. Focus your anger on what they’ve done without bringing up the threat of a break up. No relationship is without its ups and downs. Don’t let anyone deceive you. You will quarrel and you will fight. You will have sad days; you will disagree some days and not find a common ground over some issues. Compromises don’t always happen. These are normal things in a healthy relationship.
The key to a lasting relationship is being with someone you can actually communicate your feelings to and have a solutions-based approach towards conversations; someone who doesn’t just communicates, but reciprocates the energy you give to them. Someone who always bares their mind and accumulate pent-up anger. Someone who forgives easily and reverts to their default factory mode of playing and laughing. This is the key.
Good morning beloved fans”
Meanwhile, Barrister Kenneth Okonkwo, 53, who is actively involved in politics was until recently a chieftain of the All Progressives Congress, APC. Barely 3 days ago he resigned and joined the Labour Party.
Kenneth is married with two children. See post below;